Worry:
There are too many things that make us feel worried. The older you get the more things that you must worried about.However, in general, there are two things in conclusion.
The first things is that we can not prepare it sufficiently, such as exam, performance, work oppotunity and so on. We worry about these things because we are afraid of doing the things faliure. There are too may cause to get faliure, but the root of faliure is having not prepared well. Having not review enough, having not make exertion on the exam, having not sufficient materials. having not experiences, having not timge to concentrate the reviewing. But what we can do when the warried feeling coming to us? The most effective method is to assort action instantly.
The secend is the unchangable things, such as the others attitude, the dificients of one's nature, the end of the world. Some thing that you can not change byyourself. We make effort to try to make us become perfect so as to win others who around like us, to try to make the world full with love. However, not every thing in this world can change in your control. Just like some pelple like you in nature but some not. Nomatter how hard you try to make them like you , it does not work. It's not your fault anyway.Why musy you worry since you can not change it, is there any change when you worrying? The anwer is no. So why not just let it go and enjoy your life at present?
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